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Donna Torr is the founder of Ladyloving, a UK-based, female-owned adult wellness retailer trading since 2001. She writes the Academy to give plain-English, judgement-free guidance on pelvic floor health, perimenopause, desire and choosing body-safe products. Her articles link to NHS and professional-body sources, and are educational rather than medical advice.
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A short video explaining “tenting” has been doing the rounds on TikTok, and it has a lot of people asking the same question: what is…
Talking about what you want in the bedroom doesn’t come naturally to most of us. Here’s how to build the kind of open, low-pressure conversations that make intimacy easier, together.
Real self-care for UK women — not bubble baths and face masks, but the habits that actually make a difference to how you feel day to day.
Your Personal Superhero: Finding Confidence and Self-Love Through Intimate Wellness The journey to confidence isn’t always a grand gesture. Sometimes it starts in the quiet…
Self-love practices aren’t about spa days or expensive rituals. They’re the daily acts of treating yourself with genuine care — and increasingly, that includes your relationship with intimacy. Here’s how to actually rebuild your confidence through self-care that sticks.
The pelvic floor plays a direct role in orgasm, sensation and arousal — but most women are only told half the story. Here’s what the research actually shows.
The perimenopause conversation has finally arrived in the wellness space — and it’s bringing intimate health along with it. From organic lubricants to targeted devices, the tools for navigating this transition are better than they’ve ever been.
Moving house doesn’t sound like it belongs in a conversation about intimacy. Neither does a longer commute, or a partner suddenly working from home five…
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New research reveals a direct link between your gut microbiome and your libido. Discover the oestrobolome, the gut-brain-sex axis, and how UK women can support microbiome health for better intimate wellbeing.
Discover why vulval wellness is the intimate skincare conversation UK women are finally having — from microbiome care to dryness relief and pleasure.
The link between sleep and libido is backed by research but rarely talked about. Discover why rest is the most underrated tool for desire — and what to do about it.
Pelvic floor health shapes sensation, arousal, and pleasure — yet most UK women never think about it. Here’s what the 2025 research actually says, and how to build a practice that works.
What Exactly Is Slow Sex? Slow sex isn’t a technique so much as a philosophy — a deliberate shift in how we approach intimacy. Rather…
Discover how cycle syncing works — and why UK women are aligning their lifestyle with their menstrual cycle to improve energy, mood, and intimacy.
When you’ve had a tough week, being close to your partner can feel calming, or oddly draining. “Co-regulation” is a popular term for the idea…
Something is shifting in UK bedrooms, and it has nothing to do with performance. According to The Great British Sex Report 2026 by Superdrug Online…
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