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Something is shifting in how women in the UK relate to their bodies. Rather than pushing through every week the same way — same workouts, same routines, same expectations — more are starting to work with something they’ve carried their whole lives: their cycle. Cycle syncing means matching your nutrition, movement, work habits and intimate life to the phases of your menstrual cycle. It has taken off online. The evidence behind it is thinner than the popularity suggests.
The menstrual cycle isn’t just about your period. Hormones rise and fall across the cycle, and the NHS says cycles usually run every 21 to 35 days, about 28 on average (NHS). In a study of over 600,000 cycles from app users, the average cycle was 29.3 days and only about 13% of cycles were exactly 28 days (Bull et al., 2019; UCL). What those hormone changes do to your energy, your mood and your desire varies a lot from woman to woman.
Most guides split the cycle into four phases: menstrual, follicular, ovulatory and luteal. In the large study above, the follicular phase (which starts on the first day of your period) averaged 16.9 days and the luteal phase averaged 12.4 days, and ovulation did not reliably happen on day 14 (Bull et al., 2019). Treat the day counts in those guides as averages, nothing firmer. Plenty of women notice their energy, mood or desire shifting across the month. Plenty notice nothing at all.
The practice is about listening to those signals rather than overriding them.
Interest is growing: Bupa reported that UK Google searches for “early luteal phase symptoms” multiplied nine times between October 2024 and September 2025 (Bupa, 2026). Women who track their cycles often use it to decide how they eat, exercise, socialise and rest.
Many people feel that wellness advice has not always taken women’s bodies into account.
Some women who track their cycles say it helps them plan and understand their moods, but this is self-reported. A 2020 review of 78 studies found only trivial differences in exercise performance across the cycle, and concluded that general guidelines cannot be given and that a personal approach is better; the quality of the evidence was low (McNulty et al., 2020).
One of the more openly discussed aspects of cycle syncing is its effect on desire. Desire can change across the month. Studies that track women through their cycles generally find that sexual desire tends to rise towards mid-cycle, though this varies; in one daily-tracking study, oestrogen and progesterone rather than testosterone best predicted the changes (Roney & Simmons, 2013).
Rather than treating fluctuating desire as a problem, this approach invites women to see it as information. Some days you might feel drawn towards connection and playfulness. Other days, sensuality looks more like a bath, a book, and quiet time alone. Recognising both as valid — and communicating them to a partner — can take the pressure off and deepen intimacy in ways a constant, linear approach to desire rarely does.
For women who use intimate wellness products as part of their self-care routine, what feels right can vary from day to day, and you are the best judge of that.

Cycle syncing doesn’t require an app or a rigid plan. The simplest starting point is observation. Begin by noting how you feel — physically, emotionally, sexually — across your cycle for one or two months. Some of it will ring true for you and some of it won’t.
There is no proven best exercise for each phase, so choose what feels good and stop if something hurts. Notice which foods you reach for at different points, and when you feel most communicative, creative or in need of quiet.
This isn’t about becoming overly scheduled. It’s about moving with your body — and discovering that when you do, the relationship you build with yourself tends to be more honest, and more kind, than any fixed routine could offer.
If your periods are very heavy, painful or irregular, speak to your GP (NHS).
This article is for general information only and is not medical advice; speak to your GP or a qualified health professional.

Donna Torr is the founder of Ladyloving, a UK-based, female-owned adult wellness retailer trading since 2006. She writes the Academy to give plain-English, judgement-free guidance on pelvic floor health, perimenopause, desire and choosing body-safe products. Her articles link to NHS and professional-body sources, and are educational rather than medical advice.