Anal Beads & Chains FAQs
I've never tried anything like this before, which beads should I choose?
Start with our Beginner Graduated Beads or Blissful Beginnings set. These feature smaller starting sizes and flexible construction that helps you control your own pace. The graduated design builds confidence naturally. Many customers tell us they felt completely comfortable during their first experience, which is exactly what we're aiming for.
Are anal beads safe?
Yes, when you choose body-safe materials and use them correctly. All our beads are medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, or stainless steel, materials that don't harbour bacteria or cause allergic reactions. Always use plenty of lubrication, go slowly, and never force anything. Never share beads between partners without thorough cleaning. If you experience pain (beyond normal pressure), stop immediately.
How do I clean anal beads?
Wash in warm soapy water or use a specialist toy cleaner after each use. Silicone beads can go in the dishwasher (top shelf). Glass and stainless steel are even easier, they're non-porous so bacteria can't hide. Dry thoroughly and store in a cool, dark place. Keep away from direct sunlight and extreme heat.
What's the difference between silicone and glass beads?
Silicone is softer, more forgiving for beginners, and warms to body temperature. Glass is non-porous (easier to clean), provides different sensations, and is heavier so you feel more intensity. Neither is objectively "better", it depends on what sensation you're after and your experience level. Many people own both.
How do I know the retrieval cord is safe?
Our beads use specialised retrieval cords designed specifically for this purpose, they're reinforced and won't break under normal use. Never pull upward aggressively; instead, relax and let gravity help. The cord is for gentle retrieval only. If you're nervous, start with smaller beads where retrieval feels less daunting.
Can my partner use them with me?
Absolutely. Many people find partnered play even more enjoyable, your partner can help you relax, go at your pace, and adds an extra layer of intimacy. The vibrating or remote-controlled options are especially popular for couples. Always communicate throughout, establish a safe word, and ensure both partners feel comfortable.